𝗘𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗖𝗦 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗗𝗘𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗘 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗔 GROUP.

𝗘𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗖𝗦 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗗𝗘𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗘 𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗔 GROUP.

Leaving a group is something that happens. At times, people who never intended to leave a group are forced to leave becuse of some reasons like:

• Someone receives an instruction to leave from their Lords.

• Misunderstandings

• Unhealed wounds

• Accustions

• Conflicts

• Ingratitude

• Pride

If you have to leave a group there are certain standards of behaviour expected for you as an educated.

1. 𝗜𝗳 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 group

Be released with a blessing from the group.

Dont make it as a suprise, it will seem evil and calculated. Say a proper goodbye if possible.

2. 𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲,GO 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲

Do not influence other members to leave with you or to hate the group or admins. Go alone quite with discipline and humility.

3. 𝗕𝗲 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 group 𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴

Dont spread evil rumours about your former church, don't be involved in conspiracy, it won't work for you, close your mouth and mind your own business.

4.𝗗𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 "𝗺𝘂𝗱𝗱𝘆" 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗮𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲

Remember, that group has raised you, trained you, Equipped you, prayed for you and you are blessed because of that group. Dont say bad things about the group or admin you just left. Don't spread your mud on others, leave them alone. You came alone and if you feel to go just go the way you came, don't destroy it.

5. 𝗗𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀.

Remember, the group is not an building, organization, a denomination or an institution. It is an organism,a place of giving life and hope. It’s people who love learning new things and each other.

So even if you have to leave a specific platform, don’t make the mistake of disconnecting yourself from healthy relationships with fellow educators. As you negotiate the challenge of finding a new home, those relationships will be more important than ever.

In fact, maintaining healthy relationships with other educators is probably the most significant determiner of whether-or-not you’ll find a new, healthy home or drift away from – and maybe from the faith – entirely. You reap what you sow. 

7.𝗔𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲.

Some members are facing challenges in their new groups becuse they attracted a curse from their former members of the group you stayed.  Dont leave a wrong way.Otherwise leave blessed. 

In other words, if there’s a curse there’s always a cause. A curse is a spiritual lawsuit for dishonor...don’t make a curse stick by offending as you leave..just leave in peace. if you feel you were cursed, make things right with your former group members and leave.