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Fall in love with yourself



I got a call from an unknown number which I usually do not answer but somehow my intuitive mind kept telling to answer this call and I did.
A Girl - Ma’m I got your number from someone and he mentioned you can help me.
Me - Pls tell me more about you.
Girl - Ma’m I’m studying in final year and I’m good at Studies and have scored brilliant marks in last 2 years but now everything is turning upside down in my life, I can’t concentrate, the love of my life has left me abandoned.
It breaks my heart when teenagers use such strong words (abandon). But then   That is how we are conditioned in the society we live in.
Me - I asked her to meet and we discussed about her life and loss of love that she feels.
I gave her two empty glasses and asked her to fill any of them with water.
She said there is no water on the table can she ask for it?
No was my answer.
Then I gave her one glass full of water and asked her to now fill the other glass with this water.
Yes, she could.
And that is what we do to ourselves.
We try to fill the other person with love when we don’t have it - Imagine the torcher, confusion, dilemma when you aren’t able to fill other person with your love.
And now do this experiment - be in love with you. Say things to yourself in mirror that you normally tell others when you are in love.
Trust me first few days it would be difficult , for some tears will flow, emotions will erupt because we aren’t told, taught to ever love ourselves.
Love is such a misunderstood feeling but it isn’t. You will only give and receive what you have.
So this valentine “Fall in Love with Yourself”
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